I’ve been overweight my entire life. I’m about 6’3”, so my ideal weight is around 180, and the lowest I’ve gotten on a diet was about 240 (starting from 320). I went through some stuff yada yada and ended up putting the weight back on. Gaining it again has really reminded me how often I used to feel like I was being a creep just by existing around women in public.
Even something as small as handing someone my card after buying something if I accidentally graze their finger or so much as ask a simple question I immediately feel like I’m being creepy, even though I’m always polite. I’m not sure if it’s because I think I’m that unattractive from being overweight or what, but it’s gotten to the point where I’ll avoid certain coffee shops just so I can order over a speaker, like at Starbucks, and not have to look anyone in the eye while ordering.
Being bad at keeping conversations going probably doesn’t help either.
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