I am English, my guy is Italian, we live in Canada. Weighing 160lb when I met him, I was at my perfect healthy weight for my height I felt, 5’6ish and a little bit of chub in all the right places. Move forward two years and I’m 180 and not feeling great. I don’t feel obese, just in that in between size where Im not confident, but I cannot lose weight! When I try, this guy of mine has lightbulb moments of what he’s going to make for lunch/dinner, and it always involves tons of olive oil, salami, pasta and the like. When I decline he is visibly upset. I spoke to him about this and he said that he feels unable to enjoy his food unless I’m enjoying the same with him.. I’m struggling because I want to eat lean meat and salad and fruit and nuts and all those healthy things and he keeps wanting me to eat pasta!!!! God love him but he’s going to make me huge at this rate … anyone else have a feeder partner, and what would or did you do to overcome it without hurting their feelings?
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