It’s extremely irritating. First of all, how do you know my frame is big? There’s fat covering it sweetie. We don’t know what’s under it. Two, I’m not even super tall. These people act like I’m 6’8 because they’re all 5’5 and under.
I’m 5’9. I’ve gotten down to 260 from 290 this year. And they’ve all noticed I’ve gotten stricter and stricter with it. They used to sabotage me as much as possible & now I have the willpower to say no.
My mom stopped buying certain things because they’d go to waste. She doesn’t cook the same things, or nearly as often. Despite all these household changes, she still wants to break my confidence that I can lose the weight. She’s been obese her entire life & she swears it’s just “not in my genes, some people are naturally skinny.” And that “just lose 40 pounds, that’s enough. Anymore and you’ll be too skinny.” Or my favorite “even if you lose it, you’ll gain it back twice as fast and more.”
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